Congratulations guys!

Beautiful little Harper, soon to be united with her forever family

The process of adopting a waiting child begins far before you get to the paperwork. Often times it begins with a transformation of your mind. The thought of caring for a child with "special needs" may be frightening at first. Through life's experiences you then realize that bringing a child with a medical diagnosis into your family may not be as scary as it seems. I love hearing people's stories on how they came to that conclusion. Each one is unique and moving.
Once you have decided to add to your family through this route, there will be many more decisions to make. One of the most daunting questions you will face is "What medical conditions are you open to?" You may be asked if you would consider caring for a child with a condition that you never heard of before. We always ask that you discuss these conditions with your doctor. However, there is more to the picture than that. We ask you to explore and find out what it is like to parent a child with one of these conditions from people who actually live it. We ask you to look past the diagnosis and see the heart of a child.
This week we would like to talk about a medical condition that can be very confusing, Thalassemia. Thalassemia is a genetic blood disorder that effects the production of hemoglobin. It is an inherited disease and is not contagious. In some cases children with this condition must have blood transfusions and chelation therapy on a regular basis. Four girls from our Journey of Hope program (Madeline, Caitlyn, Rachel and Tara) have this condition. We will post highlights about each of these girls through out the week. So stay tuned! For now we would like to share with you stories of children with this condition and the families who love them. We would like to thank Love Without Boundaries for their work in putting this video together. Our hats are off to them for all they do for children in need of families.
Perhaps the most memorable event of this amazing day was when we had a “birthday party”. Daniel was turning 16 the next day and so we had the kitchen at the hotel make a big and heavy cake saying “Happy Birthday” on it. Just before it was time for us to leave, we put a lot of candles on it and lit them and brought it out, singing “happy birthday” to Daniel. He was thrilled, embarrassed, shy, happy, unsure it was for him, and over-all tickled
to pieces. The children kept singing and then we cut the cake. Oh my gosh!!! They loved it. It was just so much fun, but most of all, it was such a great pleasure to see Daniel and his never changing smile. We just can't tell you enough how special of a boy that Daniel is.
We were very greatful to the orphanage for the wonderful care they give to these kids. We got to experience first hand how much they care for them. It must be hard for them to come to love them so and hope for them to have a family and then to watch them leave and most likely never see them again. In effort to give the staff something to remember the children by, we had a special project planned.
Marissa had brought blocks of fabric with holes punched in the corners and each of the children drew a picture on a block. We then tied them together to make a quilt. The quilt will be hung on the wall of the orphanage. What a great reminder of a happy day that will be! The children were delighted to see their work being brought together.
The following morning, we were able to meet the twenty children from Long Gang Social Welfare Institute.










It sure was a treat for us to be able to spend some one on one time getting to know them. We learned that Cadence is a real girly girl. Beth is the opposite. She will only wear jeans and t-shirts. We saw that although Isabelle is deaf and doesn’t know sign she is a really smart girl and can communicate what she wants. She is also able to mimic people actions very well. Madeline and Rudy are very outgoing and love to sing and dance. Here’s our little princess Cadence. 

We ended the day with our hearts overflowing with love for each one of these children. I don’t know how many times that our eyes swelled with tears throughout the day. Our hearts broke for them and at the same time we were filled with hope for them. They are all truly amazing. What a blessing it was to have met them.
We couldn’t wait for the next day…. To be continued.
~By Nicole